We All Have Enemy !
I used to think that, some peoples who are nice won’t have enemy. I mean, it’s impossible. They are nice, caring. So why people hate them ? It’s not logical, yet it happens. As a human, there’s a feeling inside us called jealousy. Want it or not, that feeling will stay inside waiting for the right time to come out and make us aware that we are rolled as a devil sometimes.
I don’t know what’s happened with me today. But somehow, I remembered what happened to me back in 2007 when I was a law student in the university. I wasn’t a saint but at least I never talked anything bad about others. Furthermore, I didn’t care about others’ test results. What I would do was finishing my study as fast and as well as I could. Means, I won’t get jealous although others got A and what I got is C. In my dictionary, I will get what I deserve. If I don’t study well I won’t expect to have perfect result. In the law theory this condition can be called: ”Causality Theory”. Back to the topic. I still remember that day clearly. It was one week before I graduated. Somehow, someone spread bad news about me. At first, I didn’t really bother since it showed no impact. However, I started to pay attention when this bad person hit the right note. He/she sent a short message service (sms) to a teacher who was known as a discipline person. She called me immediately although she didn’t know me at all (apparently one of her student is a friend of mine – that’s how she got my phone number). And as if it wasn’t enough, she forwarded the sms to the university committee. In a blink of an eye .. I became prominent in the faculty (at least among the teachers). At this point, I did take this matter seriously. The faculty committee did a session to decide whether I could graduate or not.
What was the SMS content? He/she said that I bribed some of the teachers so that I could take 2 subjects altogether whereas 1 of the subjects was a prerequisite for the other subject. Moreover, I was said to bribe them to get a good mark. *sigh*… This makes me realize that no matter how good you are, there’s always someone who hates you. You can’t run from it, but you can get ready for it. What are the impacts for me? For some time, I felt afraid to be close to someone, knowing the fact that they could hurt you deeply, also whenever I visited the faculty I was a bit afraid if all the people judged me as a bad person. So, my suggestion is. When you are jealous with someone until you want to hurt them, think again:
Is it worth it?
Do you really want to hurt them?
Have you thought about the impact for them?
What are the advantages for you?
Are they hurting you or is it a jealousy since you can’t achieve what they’ve reached?
Trust me..you are a good person inside. You can’t let your evil dominates you. Think and think…before you start to destroy yourself.
-thanks to my sister-
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